I played growing up, and was looking to find community in Seattle. I had signed up for various mailing lists, and then randomly received an email from Seattle Basketball Club about drop-in opportunities. I didn’t know anyone, and blindly dropped in to play. I couldn’t even find the entrance to the gym, but I didn’t give up. That was one of the best decisions I’ve made.

My first LGBTQ+ game was the first basketball game I played in Seattle. I remember being nervous about how it would feel to play with such varying skills (and tall people!), but once I started playing, I could feel the support of the community. It was palpable.

Some members of my team like to go on adventures when we go to the tourneys. In LA it was riding electric bikes, and in Vegas it was a sand buggy adventure. Most recently my favorite memory was holding on for dear life while Nelly slingshotted us in the buggy. I survived to tell the tale.

In a personal sense, it’s given me new friends, community, and something to look forward to. Athletically, it’s forced me to focus on becoming a better player, showing up for my team, and finding my way to add value. As a leader, it’s allowed me to hear differing perspectives, learn about diversity, and be a positive voice.

Keep getting involved because it’s only up from here. Don’t just show up to one tournament. Consistently show up, and you’ll develop community and start recognizing folks. We all have to show up in order to grow the leagues/tournaments.